Feb 27, 2007We entered Madrid like many other cities we've visited, leaving Barcelona around midday on the 24th by express train. But our reception was wholly different. Waiting for us at the station was Anna Nagel, an old friend and long-time correspondent of Mandy's mother. She kissed us on both cheeks in the Spanish fashion and set immediately into friendly conversation while leading us to her car. Our decision to drop into Spain had been a spontaneous one and Anna and her family had graciously offered to host us if we should come to Madrid. And with little forenotice, here we were.
Gradually we got better acquainted as we drove the thirty-odd kilometers to their residence in the urbanization (like a suburb or planned/gated community) of Ciudalcampo. In all honesty, my first impression of the city of Madrid itself was of low interest. Everywhere the city was sprawling, spilling out into suburban areas with highrise apartments sprouting like weeds. You could see probably a hundred cranes dotting the horizon, all evidence of a rapidly expanding urban center. There were billboards and even American-style shopping malls, which we had thus far been able to avoid. And so it was nice to leave the center and enter the green space of Ciudalcampo with a view to the distant snow-covered mountains across a broad green lowland. There were heavy clouds hanging low in the sky and a cool wind stirred in the trees - in short, the kind of weather that I can find refreshing, as a boy from the country, the wind blowing away the pollution and constant thrum of the city.
We were first to meet the old and placid German Shepard, Zimba, and in short order the rest of the family with more kisses from daughter Laura, and handshakes (for me, at least) from Daniel and Anna's husband Paco. We were given a cozy guestroom in the basement, complete with internet access (a treat out here on the European backpacker trail). We were made to feel even more at home when we were served a delicious light dinner and invited to go out that night with Dani, who was suffering from a cold but was excited to show us the city. It was a pleasure to sit at the table with the family, as we would do most other nights there, and experience the multilingual aspects of their home. Because Anna is originally from Germany a good portion of the conversation was in German. Yet this would change just as quickly to Spanish, as Paco was a native Spaniard. It was fun just to listen to their exchanges even if we could understand much of it. Of course, they would sometimes translate for our benefit.
Night fell and after a short nap on my part, we climbed into Dani's small Ford and took off for Madrid. During the drive into the city, we chatted and Dani selected a suitable soundtrack for the evening. The pulsating, driving grooves of the electronic/industrial band Goldfrapp poured from the speakers and proffered an apt aural counterpart to the nighttime neon-lit urbanscape. The closer we got to the city, the more Dani cranked the music, and I felt that youthful intoxication surging through my body. We were hitting the town; we were alive; we were free. Historically speaking, Madrileños have been partying like this since the fall of Franco, a continuing celebration of life called
la movida. But it's a universal language.

We stopped to pick up a good friend of Dani, named Sebastian, who had German-Spanish heritage as well. With a quick look at the car's engine after a mysterious new sound appeared, we were off into the busy streets of late night Madrid. Actually, it is hard to say "late night" because most people begin going out around 11pm or midnight and often stay out until morning's light. We drove around for a long time in futile search of a parking space near the center in Plaza del Sol. Every possible place had been taken, and then some, with driver's parking illegally in driveways or doubleparking others in. Scooters were jammed into every possible space on the sidewalks and Smart Cars were parked perpendicular in parallel spaces. And still people poured into town, the night young. We finally decided to park in an underground garage, with both Dani and Sebastian agreeing they had never seen it so busy.
La movida, along with Madrid, was growing.
We walked to Sol, passing many people all dressed to kill and be seen doing it, the four of us not really fashionistas. Sebastian led the way to a little bar near the square after we had been shown the tile marking kilometer zero from which all streets and roads in Spain (or just Madrid?) extend. The bar was a flourescent-lit no-frills kind of space and there were many locals all crowded around tables smoking, drinking cerveza, and all eyes glued to the television set hanging in the corner. It was football night in Madrid, with both hometown teams - Real Madrid and Atletico Madrid - vying in what is called a derby game. Passions were high in the city and in this bar, people rooting for either side.
Neither Dani nor Sebastian were avid sportsfans, though, so we felt a little more in like company. Still, it was fun to be in that charged environment, to start with surprise when the gathered crowd burst into cheers at a scored goal. The Spanish love their football and we discussed it for a time over a pitcher of beer and tapas, answering many of the same questions we had fielded with Alec, our one-time travel companion from Liverpool, about how football (soccer) is not so huge an event in the U.S. and how American football is perhaps the most significant sport, culminating in the spectacle of the Super Bowl.
It was enjoyable to speak about life at home, how it may differ or how it may be similar - to be ambassadors of our own culture. I had been on the inquisitive end of such questioning many times before in asking my international friends and acquaintances about their home countries and cultures. It's nice to set people straight or to provide a clearer picture from the perspective of a native. In the process you learn much about your own country and even come to consider it a destination, worthy of travel itself.
Once the game had ended (in a tie) and the people began to trickle back out into the streets, we followed suit and moved on to another bar, this one more stereotypical with loud rock music, dim purpleish lighting, and loads of cigarette smoke that left my throat feeling raw by night's end. We were introduced to four lovely ladies, who have us
los besos (kisses) on each cheek, and we sat around a small table and soaked in the atmosphere. There were rapidfire exchanges of Spanish and the music was too loud for me to make out most of what was said anyway. But it was a pleasure to be in the company of Spanish peers. The girls were giggling and kept reading a cellphone screen, and we wondered why. Dani and Sebastian tried to decipher: "It's like
Sex in the City." And one of the girls closest to us explained further that the others were reading a long three-part text from a Scandinavian guy they had met recently and all liked. Yep,
Sex in the City .
Because Dani had paid for drinks and food at the last bar, I volunteered to buy a round and received the welcome assistance of Sebastian in ordering our drinks (though my Spanish
was returning as time went on). The drinks were terribly expensive at around 22 euros for 3 mixed drinks and one regular bottle of beer, which has proven fairly true of European establishments I've encountered - whatever the reason may be. However, there is an upside (if you view it the following way): I ordered a rum and coke and was given a tall, slim glass half full of rum and a small bottle of coke to add to it. There can be no contesting the potency of a mixed drink in Madrid. Dani said this bar was where they had come as teenagers as a first experience with alcohol in a public setting. It was interesting to consider how different this was from the more prudish attitude towards alcohol in the United States. In this way the overall culture was different. But the jovial atmosphere and upbeat attitude were the same. Dani and I discussed one of his current web design projects, which seguewayed into a conversation about big business, media and globalization. I was impressed with his nuanced outlook, as I have been impressed by many of my European friends. It is a delightful thing to so easily find political allies, especially international ones. It gives me great hope for the future of our world.
Eventually the girls left, again with an exchange of kisses, and we too departed. We made one made one more stop in a park after returning to the car and met two other friends of Dani. One had travelled to the U.S. somewhat recently, working for the U.S. Women's Hockey team and had visited Las Vegas at some point. Two days there were more than enough for him, he said. And we had to agree: Las Vegas is too much. In this and other conversations, it gave us pause to think about what perception of America a European or other foreigner may have. Often, it seems, there is the assumption that the United States is all New York Cities and four-lane freeways, a reality which obviously clashes with Mandy's and my own smalltown upbringings. It also caused us to question our own perception of Europe: Were we forming a narrow picture of life here by mainly visiting only the famous cities - Paris, Barcelona, Madrid? It wise perhaps to keep an open mind and not arrive too readily at any concrete conclusions. Ours are subjective experiences after all...
We returned home around 4am and fell into a somewhat restless sleep, awakening finally after 10am to gray skies. We were provided a hearty breakfast by Anna and given information on how to take the bus into Madrid and from there the Metro to where we would want to go. We found Madrid's Metro system to be wonderfully organized and efficient, taking it the long distance from the bus station to the center of the city. Though we had been warned several times about pickpockets, we never did have any such incidents.

We used the late morning to walk through downtown Madrid, taking in its more stately and older architecture, which we found more attractive than the newer high-rises. We passed by the Palacio Real and lingered in the Plaza de Oriente, a park full of statues placed there after Queen Sofia had a nightmare that they would collapse the roof of the palace. Next, we meandered back through the streets towards Museo del Prado, passing a still-functioning cloistered convent in the middle of the city. When we arrived at the Prado, we discovered a long line of people awaiting entry, which was free Sundays. Instead of waiting and squandering the day - which had cleared to sun sometime that morning - we opted to visit the nearby Botanical Gardens, where entry was an affordable euro apiece. It was a pleasure to be surrounded by so much green space after trekking through the city. We strolled the garden paths until the first signs of dusk appeared and the garden closed, whereupon we returned to the Prado to find a much more manageable line. After a slight wait, we were inside - and for free! - looking at such famous works as Bosch’s “Garden of Earthly Delights,” Velásquez’s “Las Meninas,” and others by the likes of Salvador Dalí, Tintoretto, and Picasso. Afterwards, we met up with Anna and Laura and rode back to Ciudalcampo with them, where we were treated to another fabulous dinner full of regional specialties.

The next day began in much the same fashion, though we were more well-rested, and we rode with Dani into Madrid. He suggested a walk through the large Parque del Buen Retiro would be a good way to spend the late morning, as it was proving to be a nother gloriously sunny day (indeed, Dani’s father had predicted as much the night before by reading the barometric pressure on a specialized wristwatch). We took his advice after a break for coffee at a funky little café bordering the park in which sand art was displayed, lending an almost Southwestern Native American feel to the place. Sufficiently caffeinated and bathroom-breaked (since it can be difficult to find a public restroom), we sauntered through the park, weaving a course past the central pond where people lazily rowed boats, past a man playing accordion and a costumed street performer portraying the graceful movements of a tree. We happened upon the Crystal Palace, a long glass and iron structure which currently houses modern art exhibits on the theme of “habitats” and the concept of “space”.
Once we had “retired” long enough to the sunny green space of the park, and after a filling meal packed for us by Anna (she really did too much for us!), we loped our way to the Museo Reina Sofia, the city’s modern art gallery. It was great to walk through the gallery space and see so many original, avant-garde pieces, so refreshing to see after innumerous classical works in the Louvre and the Prado. The most stunning piece, and truly the highlight, was Picasso’s timeless anti-war painting, “Guernica”. To see it in person far exceeds any experience of it made possible by reproduction. Its monochromatic composition is so striking, the blacks, grays, and white stirring and evoking such pathos, screaming out the carnage and devastation of war. I found it almost overwhelming in its intensity and I must have spent ten minutes studying it. We also saw a good number of sculpture and video works as well, all of which were interesting and intriguing in their own right.
In the evening we followed the suggestion of our
Let’s Go guidebook, after unsuccessfully trying to reach Dani about heading home, and went to a little restaurant full of locals and students called Achuri. It had a definite political bent, with leftist posters on the walls, and a casual albeit intellectual atmosphere that we found enlivening. Plus, the prices were cheap. I ordered a sausage sandwich and wine, and Mandy had a large goat’s cheese salad. After this filling meal, we were able to contact Dani and ride with him back home. We then spent the rest of the evening, doing idle tasks and posting on the internet, though not without a second, late dinner. And it was with this fullness - of experience and hospitality - that we retired contented and awaiting the next day in Spain.